Are you considering material things? Are you thinking about all the the time you put into the relationship, the work that it would take to “start over.” Are you more worried about what your friends, family, Facebook friends are going to think when they hear the news? When you think of never seeing that person... Continue Reading →
Journey to letting go
A reader once asked me "what led you to the journey of helping others... what helped you put that foot forward in letting go and fighting for your life again?" The crazy thing is- I didn't realize I had anything to let go of until all of a sudden life seemed to slap me across... Continue Reading →
Law of Closure
Once or twice a day (usually at work), I have others ask me what the tattoo on my arm is- what it's meaning is. "A triangle," they say.. and then giggle. A triangle, yes, but it's much much more.. and more than just a cover up.. Gestalt, is a world-famous psychologist who is most well... Continue Reading →
freedom
Life is scary sometimes, and it doesn't make sense. Just last week I felt as though I was having a mid-twenties crisis, and now tonight I can't get the smile off of my face or my brain to shut off. I think sometimes our perspective gets the best of us and hides the good parts... Continue Reading →
Sand through the concrete
Why do we fail? Are we failing others, ourselves? our partners?..It depends, right? It depends on how you are viewing the situation. How you perceive it. It's crazy how every single conversation, every single adventure, memory, moment, movement forms us.. these past events form our perception of the present. Do you ever sit and realize... Continue Reading →
Identification of the you
Finding peace in one area of your life leads to a domino effect of happiness- This last year I have learned more about myself than I have in the first 23 years of my life. I experienced emotions I didn't know existed, I felt things I didn't know was possible to feel, I acted in... Continue Reading →
the further-
Asking for help isn't shameful.. it's lifesaving- I find myself being distant from my computer for great lengths of time. You would think as someone who "blogs" that they would do a better job at keeping up on it, but honestly it is something that isn't in my daily thoughts. Until, lately I have... Continue Reading →
Self Help…?
All of these self help books tell us to basically throw in the towel, pull up your big girl panties and choose the path that you always wanted to but never felt as thought you were able to. Why not? Because that's not "you". That's not who "you" are.... hm. Interesting thought. What one doesn't... Continue Reading →
Just a Movie Scene.
Realizing how long it has been since I opened up this site made me wonder why.. I hadn't come back to really look at it since the day I posted the OCPD blog. Watching the amount of views over a couple hours rise higher and higher made me sick. But- also gave me a great... Continue Reading →
My struggle with OCPD
I wrote this post in May 2016, now it being almost September, almost 4 months later..I feel enough courage from the ones closest to me to share with you all- "oh my gosh I want your life." "I wish I was like that." "can I be you."... yeah these comments are quite extreme and I... Continue Reading →
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